I read Thomas' blog today and I loved it, I really did, especially the first point, the "think caveman" advice . Us mums can sometimes make things way more complicated for our sons than they actually are. And like Thomas says, it is so often more about our own emotional complexitie s than theirs. I have 3 girls and 2 boys, and although I am a hands-on mum to all 5 of them, I am learning that I have to relinquish a lot of the 'control' that us females crave over aspects of my sons' development to their Dad . I have realised,... and then seen in-action that the ways he touches their lives are ways that I cannot . It is sometimes just a casual boy nudge-me-as-i-walk-past-and-nudge-me-back in the corridor, ...or it is wrestling on the loungeroom floor, ..or it is those few words of wisdom that are passed between manly grunts as they carry heavy objects in the garden.... But they are all things that are not part o
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